I get it. Let me just say that first. I get the concept; a day to show your appreciation for the mothers in your life.
Do I believe that every day you should show your appreciation? Yes. But I also understand how easy it is to get lost in the days and sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t. So having a designated day once a year to show your appreciation seems logical to me. But I’m ready to skip it.
Yep. You read it right. Cancel it for me. Count me out. Some how every year Mother’s Day ends up being a big let down for me.
So now that I’ve said that; let me say this:
I DO NOT HAVE HIGH EXPECTATIONS FOR MOTHERS DAY.
I don’t. I don’t expect to sleep in. Get breakfast in bed. A fresh bouquet of flowers, an edible arrangement, new jewelry, a closet full of clothes and a day of pampering.
In fact Mando has asked a handful of times what I want and I’ve always answered, “I don’t know.” Because saying “this is what I want.” Is usually a let down because A) I just don’t end up getting it. And B) because I don’t feel like that’s very thoughtful. I feel like Mother’s Day gifts should be special and thoughtful and to give a list of things I want on this “special” day just doesn’t seem right.
I don’t want any material items. Mainly I want a day with my family. Maybe a nap. But that’s shooting a little high. I want to take my kids to the park with my husband and spend time as a family. That’s it. That’s what I want.
But in the grand tradition of mothers days for me, the weekend has started off with Mando being a jerk and Nathan being a brat. And it’s just old. Old and tiring. And I’m over it.
So cancel Mother’s Day for me. I’m crossing it off my calendar and instead just aiming for the usual “okayish sunday.”